A physical way to visualize all the little wins in my life
Happy new year! Welcome to the first issue of 2021. I’ve got a fun blog post to share with you. But first, let’s start with a story about how I stay motivated.
I used to view success as absolute outcomes. Maybe earning a certain amount of income, or gaining recognition. I thought these were things that defined me. But now, my only goal is to get better at what I’m doing. We are taught to have specific and measurable goals, which I think is useful in certain settings. But when it comes to life, I think it’s more valuable to have a generic goal that we can never meet. A goal where I strive to get better at what I do is a game I can play until the very end. Everything that I achieve as a result of pursuing this goal is just a milestone. If I made $X amount in a year, then that’s great and we can move on. But, say I made significantly less the next year, then that sucks and we can move on. The good and bad don’t define me. The only thing that I want to be defined by, is having the will to make progress. As long a I get the chance to keep learning, then I’m content.
It’s a big mindset change for me to have. When I started to view my life as a means to just improve what I’m doing now, I suddenly felt lighter. I felt a heavy weight off my shoulder as I realized my achievements or failures, are no longer part of who I am. They can both happen to me and I can learn from it. And that’s all. No matter how high or low I go in life, I only view that as a learning opportunity. This mindset is what keeps me going among the mess of a world we live in.
Despite the huge shift I am experiencing, I still struggle to see the good in my life. I focus too much of my energy on the things that didn’t work out, than the ones that did. I needed a way to resolve this because it wasn’t healthy. Who in their right mind wants to live a life where they see the 1% of the things that didn’t work out, and dismiss the 99% of things that went well? It’s terrible.
I created a new system to track all the things that I did well in life. It’s no surprise that I came up with this since I do a lot of data tracking in my work. The system involves folding paper stars as a means to celebrate. It could be a small thing, or a big thing I want to celebrate. The important thing is to take the time to recognize my efforts and be reminded of all the steps I am taking to move forward.
I fold 2 stars for a little win, 4 stars for medium, and 6 for big wins. A small win could be as simple as waking up early for a few days in a row, or sticking to an exercise routine. Something medium would be more up to chance, like a new work opportunity coming my way. The big one is about persevering through something really challenging. It could be overcoming a fear, or seeing through a large project. It’s the type of win where you feel lighter after going through with it. The most important aspect of this is I can see my progress. I can look at it during days I am not feeling motivated to remind myself that I am achieving small things and taking steps to move forward.
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Ever since I became an independent designer in 2019, I’ve had many insights about life, work, data visualization, design, and creativity. I have been documenting these insights as much as I can through various mediums. In 2020, I decided to start a newsletter where I can put all these insights in one place. This newsletter is meant for people who want to learn more about what it’s like to be an independent data visualization designer.